Not fully read the thread...so sorry if i repeat anything. If you are suffering due to wanting a bigger car, if you remove the desire for the car then you no longer suffer. A trivial example, i know... People can get depressed dreaming for the perfect house, girlfriend, job etc.... If you stop wanting and desiring them you won't spend years worrying or depressed. Ultimately this may even result in gaining what you were after originally. Desires are just dreams for the future. It's like removing any unachievable goals so you are not disappointed by them later.